At the end of July in 1986 you helped my sweet mother give birth to a 7lb 3 oz girl full of dark curly hair. You were 36 years old. That little girl had your finger from the very start. You held her, loved her, changed her bum and did everything just like a perfect daddy would. Since that time in 1986 you have given this little girl many gifts. The most important gift was the gift of life. You gave her a gift to be born into a family that was sealed in the temple so that no matter what, she could have that family forever. You gave her of a safe, warm home to go home from the hospital to. You provided her with food and shelter and more importantly you provided her with unconditional love. It did not matter how many hours you stayed up at night helping her to fall back asleep, even when you knew you had to be to work early, you cradled and calmed her anyway. This little girl knew from the very beginning that this man, who held her in his arms, would always be someone who would love her and she would love back. As this tiny baby grew, more was expected to keep her alive and happy. She needed things like clothes, shoes, more food, a warm bed, fun things to do, and toys. Toys like a little brown teddy bear that you got while you were off testing. It protected her through every thunder and lightning storm. And then there was a little doll named Flinta who taught her how to be a mommy. Then there were all the fun adventures you took this little girl on. There were many miles that this little girl sat on her daddy’s shoulders while he hiked up Mill Creek Lake. There were countless fishing lines that he untangled and cast out. So many fish you didn’t get to catch because you were patiently teaching this little girl how to fish. Or there was the time you taught her how to make willow whistle with a pocket knife. Just as soon as you turned your back she sliced her little finger. You were right there with super glue and a band aid to make it all better. What about the time you took apart an old yellow banana seat bike, hung it in the garage and spray painted it pink. You got her new tires and a seat for the bike, and put it back together. She was so proud of that bike. She had many adventures on the dirt trails on that bike. Every time she would come home from the trails and another cow head seemed to find its way into those white tires, you would take the tire off, find the hole, patch it and send her on her way. She never had to go without having a bike to ride. When the time came for this little girl start school, many hours were spent with her doing homework like writing letters and numbers, saying sounds and reading stories out loud. As she got older, school projects became an important thing. On time when she was in the 4th grade you spent a whole Saturday cutting little pieces of apple tree twigs and gluing them together to make a log cabin for her Idaho History Class. Or the time when she was in 5th grade and you helped her build her project on batteries. She was amazed at how much you knew about them. Because of you, she learned how important church was. She was so proud of her daddy who sat up on the stands every Sunday when he was in the bishopric. She loved writing him notes on paper and holding it up for him to see during Sacrament meeting. She never once stopped to think that everyone else on the stand could read them too. She remembers that you never missed church. You always went. You lead by example. It didn’t matter how tired, stressed or busy you were, you always had time to go to church and serve others. On her 12th birthday she remembers how you took off work to come up to girls camp and go on the hike with her. As a matter of fact, you went on all but one girls camp hike with her in her 6 years of girls camp. You always made her important. She loved hiking with her Daddy. One of the other things she enjoyed doing with her daddy was going to ward choir practice. She wasn’t a very good singer, but she loved to go because she loves hearing her Daddy sing. As this little girl got older and became a teenager, she became more of a challenge. She was a typical girl. She liked clothes, shoes, makeup and jewelry. Then she decided to be a cheerleader and it was expensive. Never once did her Daddy complain about the extra hours he’d have to spend at work to pay for her to be happy and do cheerleading. At the age of 15 she was able to get her drivers licenses. Because you loved her so much, you also gave her a car; first the Blazer, then the Taurus. The Taurus however took a lot of work to keep running properly. One time you had to spend a couple weekends changing the head gasket just so it would run for her to drive to school. Then only a few months after that she was driving the Taurus to lunch at school and she crashed into someone. You were disappointed in her, but she knew that you still loved her and were just grateful she was safe. Her senior year of high school, a dark haired return missionary stole her heart. Any other Daddy would have feared the idea of their daughter marring so young, but you loved her so much, and were so happy for her, you let her do it anyway. You always gave her the benefit of the doubt. Since then you discovered this boy she loved so much was truly the one for her and have grown to love him as a son. You’ve gotten such a good relationship with this boy. After a few years, this little girl and this boy gave you grandkids. You have shown so much love to those grandkids. They know that they will always have an adventure if Grandpa is around. You are the best grandpa. The grandkids know that you can fix and do anything with a tube of glue, some duct tape, paper towels and couple rubber bands. You never hesitate to offer help. Nothing could not be saved in your eyes. It was like magic seeing you glue all the pieces together. Time with grandpa is the kids favorite past time. “Babysitting grandpa” as the girls lovingly call it. You always made sure to wake up early and pause the DVR so the kids could fast forward through the commercials. Then you’d sit with popcorn or some sort of popsicle concoction and share with them until the shows were over. You would play with them, joke with them and teach them how to have joy. Camping with grandpa is the best. So many memories flood just thinking of the good times that were shared. You were the best at setting up the campsite… perfectly. While this girl had to take the kids camping by herself many times, she never had to worry because her daddy would be there and safe the day with every camping mishap. Once again there was nothing you couldn’t do. Hiking, fishing, playing cards, backing the camper in. It was all possible because you were there to help. So as the years went by, you provided this girl with everything the stars could give her. The sky was the limit. You gave up so much of your life so that this little girl could have a great life. You went without so much so that she could have everything. She truly is the luckiest girl in the world because she had you for a Daddy. Nobody else even compares to you. So to my Daddy, I want to know that I do realize and appreciate all that you sacrificed. You are my hero. I am where I am at today because of you and what you sacrificed. I cannot thank you enough. There simply aren’t the right words to use to express my gratitude for you. I hope you will always know that I am so proud to have you as my Daddy. You have made me the person I am today. I am grateful everyday for you. It sounds so pathetic to say it so simply, but Thank you! I will love you forever! I love you Daddy!!! Love, Your Kakey
Let the memory of Donald be with us forever.
Don Carlson was born July 13, 1950, in Trinidad, Colorado, the 2nd of 6 children born to Leland & Elinor Carlson. He spent his early years living back and forth between Trinidad and Drummond, Idaho. His first 2 ½ years of school were in a little one-room school in Drummond, Idaho. When he was 8, his family settled in Parker, Idaho. He attended South Fremont High School, where he was active in band and science. He won a science fair with his project of rebuilding the skeletons of 2 cats. During this time he was active in scouting and earned the rank of Eagle Scout. He worked hard during the summers moving pipe, hauling hay, and spraying bug-infested trees in the Targhee National Forest. He also found time to develop many talents including playing the baritone, harmonic, and accordion, doing ventriloquism and performing on his 6-foot unicycle.
Mission/College/Courting He served a mission to Australia. He loved the country, loved the wild life, plants, and animals. Was a hard working, good, and happy missionary. He always dreamed of going back. And loved the movie “Man from Snowy River”, because it was filmed in one of his areas After his mission he worked for Earl Wilcox cutting trees until he cut his foot, then he got a job running a jack hammer mining travertine. He attended Ricks College. His main mode of transportation during that time was a unicycle. He would even go up and down the stairs on campus while riding his unicycle. He played the baritone in the marching band during this time and received his associates degree in Biology. Dad met our Mom, Janice Ostermiller, during Christmas break at a M Men and Gleaners (single adult) activity. He was the good looking return missionary on crutches (because of his logging accident), and there were 5 girls trying to catch his eye. He asked Mom out the first time right before she was leaving to go to Washington with her brother and she had to turn him down. It took two more times before she could finally say yes in August. They hiked table rock for their first date with Dad’s best friend. Dad’s friend had a date who stood him up, so he brought his little brother. They dated every Friday, Saturday, and Sunday after that and were engaged on Christmas Eve in 1972 at the cemetery (the only quiet place in town). Then he left for one semester at BYU shortly after they were engaged, and they spent most of their engagement apart because Dad was in Provo and Mom was in Rexburg. They were married June 15,1973 in the Ogden Temple because the Idaho Falls temple was being remodeled. After they were married, they lived in a 4 bedroom house in Archer until the twins were born the next year in October. After Lisa and Lori were born they moved next door into a bigger house. During this time he continued to mine travertine with a jack hammer, air jack, and dynamite until December after the babies were born. Then he did taxidermy during for a short time during the winter then worked for Sutton Farms. He applied for a job at the site in 1975 and they moved into another house on the Archer bench. He found out that he got the job the day that they brought Wes home from the hospital in October (11 months after the twins were born). He started out in the water pit and advanced to quality assurance. He commuted from Archer to the site until February of 1977. Because financing a home was so difficult at that time, they had both of their father’s cosign at 14% interest and bought a single wide trailer on the property that they now live one in Moreland. In August, their 4th child was born. Do the math. 4 toddlers under 3 and they used cloth diapers. They spent a lot of time changing and cleaning diapers! In the fall of 1979 he started classes at ISU. The following January, he started doing swing shifts at work. He would get up to ride the bus to ISU at 5:00 in the morning, then catch the bus to the site in Pocatello at 1:00 in the afternoon, and finally get home again at 1:00 am. Then he’d get back up at 5:00 and start all over again. Kim was born that spring on the last day of Spring Break. He started his crazy schedule back up the following Monday. There are a few years there that memories are few because they were so deep into survival mode. Erik was born in December of 1982. They finally decided that 6 kids in a 2 bedroom trailer was too much. In April of 1983, their friends organized a “barn raising” and their house was rapidly built on the same property as their trailer. You might be a redneck if . . . . . . . you pull your old house around to the front of your new house and throw a plank between the two front doors to move. Dad was always creative at coming up with solutions to problems. Dad got his 1981 Chevy pickup in 1984. That was when we fell in love with Mill Creek campground in Sawmill Canyon. The highlight of our growing up years were the week long camping trips every summer. Especially in the beginning, many of those camping trips were with our friends the Mechams. We played in the creek, fished, hiked to the lake, and played cards. And Dad always taught us to leave things better then we found it, everywhere we went. We usually spent a good amount of time picking up trash around the campsite before we could head home at the end of the week. He spent a lot of time traveling for several years during this time as he was made a level 3 examiner at work. In July of 1986, lucky # 7 was born, their spoiled baby girl Katie. About this time he was called to be a counselor in the bishopric. He served in two different bishoprics, on the high council, and was scoutmaster for many years, as well as other callings. His favorite calling was serving as a priesthood leader at girls camp. At the top of Amy’s Yearling hike, he commented to her and her best friend that now that they made it to the end going forward, they needed to hike back in reverse and he’d watch the path for them. They giggled and stumbled and felt quite accomplished to make it to the end going backwards. Four years later, when they were Adventurers, he was still watching the path as the girl’s continued their tradition of hiking backwards on the way back down. Their surprise son, Dave, was born in March of 1988 and their family was complete, until the grandbabies started coming. We have many fond memories of our growing up years with Dad. As a scouter, he helped each of his boys obtain the rank of Eagle Scout, and spent many, many hours serving at every service project heard about. Working with Dad was always an educational experience and not just an education about the task at hand. We all believe he knew everything. Dad hated winter. He hated the cold and leaving for work in the dark and coming home in the dark. However, Christmas was our favorite holiday with Dad. He often took the whole week of between Christmas and New Years. We’d stay home and spend the week watching movies, playing the old Coleco, and setting up the criss cross crash track. He also was known to hook up tubes to the back of his pickup and pull us down the roads on the snow. At speeds that Mom would never approve of. Many of us have so many stories and memories surrounding hunting and fishing with our Dad. We always took Pork and Beans and Spaghettios that we stopped to cook over a fire and eat straight out of the can during the afternoon. And we always took snickers and pork rines. We got into so many crazy, scary situations while hunting, but Dad could always get us out and safely home. We remember driving on roads that should never have been driven, fixing the muffler on the pickup with a tin pop can, and Dad somehow always managing to get us back to the truck after hiking, when we thought that we were surely lost time after time. -Dave’s hunting story -Erik’s testimony story. -Dad drinking from the pond -Almost killed Dad (Tyce story) -Kim in the middle, passing snacks, name that tune. -Stupid glasses story -Tied shoe laces -Glue king, could glue and fix anything. Many of us never knew that there were real appliance repairmen. -Dad always took care of the things he borrowed. And whatever he borrowed, he returned in better condition than he received it. Erik liked it when Dad borrowed his chain saw because it came back cleaner and better than he sent it. -He was a perfectionist in everything he did. Planting a garden was an adventure. We picked rock. Most of our driveway was hauled by hand in buckets with rocks out of our garden. He measured out his rows with stakes and twine. Spacing was always perfect between the rows and plants. During the summer he would come home from work about 5:15 and was often changed into his overalls and outside working in the yard by 5:30. -Dad loved to mechanic in the dark. (Or not). Many a child in our home has spent time holding the flashlight for Dad for hours at a time.
-Many of you know that our Dad loves music and was an accomplished musician in many ways. However he never learned to read music well, because he could play by ear. He played the harmonic, trumpet, accordian, baritone, jews harp, and even knew a song on the piano. We all have many memories of our Dad playing his harmonica while driving on family trips. And our evenings while we camped were always spent singing along while Dad played the his harmonica around the campfire. -He learned to be a ventriloquist as a child, but he would only perform for family and a few church activities. His “dummies” were named Harry and Goliath, and his kids have many parts of his routines memorized. Mom always sat on the front row when he performed, with his note cards in her lap to help if he ever got off track. In 1997, any bit of a hard shell he had came crumbling down when his first grandchild was born. Ariana was born several weeks early on April Fools day, and instantly melted his heart. He loved being a Grandpa and excelled at it, as he did most things in life. Since retirement in 2014, after 37.8458 NRF’n years at the site, Dad’s life has revolved around his Grandchildren and his plants. His grandkids idolize him. He was always willing to give a grandkid a ride on the 4 wheeler. He made boats, and bug containers and was not known for telling his grandkids no. He was often referred to as the baby whisperer. He had a special technique of laying babies in his lap and bouncing and cooing until they fell asleep. He kept the kids favorite shows recorded on the DVR so that when they came over they could sit and watch their shows and snuggle and share a snack with Grandpa, without the commercials. He played so many games with his kids and grandkids. Cards, dice, and dominos were his favorite. A visit at their house usual involved sitting around the table sharing treats and playing games. Outside of grandkid time, Dad and Mom’s favorite times together during their retirement years were spent on the 4 wheeler. Often Mom drove and Dad took pictures. He loved looking at the wildflowers and looking for wildlife. It was made even better when they got to share it with their friends “The empty nesters.” As we have visited with friends, community members, family, and coworkers this week, so many people commented on what a kind humble man our father was. He always had a handshake, a smile, and often a “Dad” joke. And many people told us that they think the thing that drew everyone to him was that he had no idea how good he was. He was the most humble man we’ve ever met.
Resting place · Riverside-Thomas, Blackfoot, Idaho
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