This past weekend we celebrated Micah’s 4th birthday at Fun City and he was surrounded by family, friends, and an abundance of love. He was all over the place and guests would often ask me “where is the birthday boy?” It was a great time and to see him full of laughter and sweets was a blessing. I’m doing what I can to raise him and I pray daily hoping God is guiding me and caring for you in Heaven. I look back at previous birthdays and see images of us holding Micah for our family photo standing in front of the decoration or cake. It feels lonely knowing you’re not next to us and I know you’re smiling down from Heaven watching over us. We even had a bath bomb party the same day with his friends and then had everyone over for more fun. The day was special and filled with love for Micah but that love is always available, 365 days out of the year. I hope we can celebrate all these missed occasions later on but until then, I’ll keep celebrating on your behalf. I love you, Lannie.
Let the memory of Lan be with us forever.
Lan was born on October 19, 1986, to Ky Chieu Ly and Kim Thanh Thuy Pham, and from an early age, she lit up the lives of everyone around her with her warmth and radiant smile. A proud graduate of the International Baccalaureate program at Wichita East High School in 2005, Lan went on to pursue her passion for medicine. She earned her Bachelor's degree in Biology with a Minor in Psychology from Wichita State University in 2008 and completed her MD at the University of Kansas School of Medicine in 2014.
In 2017, Lan fulfilled her dream of becoming a primary care physician after completing the Wesley Family Medicine Residency program. She devoted herself wholeheartedly to her patients and took great joy in mentoring future healthcare providers, embodying the compassion and dedication that made her so special.
Lan found her soulmate in Thanh Duy "Tip" Bui, and they married in 2014. Together, they welcomed their precious son, Micah Anh Bui, in 2021, who brought immeasurable joy and purpose to her life. As a mother, Lan thrived, pouring her love into every moment with Micah, cherishing the beautiful family they built together. In 2023, they returned to Wichita to be closer to family, creating new memories filled with love and laughter.
Lan’s spirit touched the lives of so many, and she will be profoundly missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her. Her infectious laughter, unwavering support, and kind heart will forever resonate in our memories. Though she may no longer be with us, her love will continue to shine brightly, guiding us and encouraging us just as she always did.
Lan’s visitation was held at Lakeview Funeral Home on April 25. 2025, it was intimate and attended by family, friends, and colleagues. On April 26, 2025, the Funeral Mass was held at The Church of Magdalen and followed by the committal at Lakeview Cemetery. The morning was filled with God’s presence and a light comforting rain.
Lan is survived by her loving husband, Thanh Duy Bui; cherished son, Micah Anh Bui; devoted parents, Ky Chieu Ly and Kim Thanh Pham; brothers, Binh Kiem Ly, Giang Kiem Ly (Linda), and Doan Kiem Ly; sister, Van Quynh Ly;
Resting place · Lakeview Cemetery, Wichita, Kansas
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Yesterday, I celebrated our 11th year wedding anniversary with Micah. He didn’t understand the significance at such a young age but I hope in the future he can appreciate his own anniversary with the love of his life. Our wedding anniversary continues to be a special occasion for me and even though you aren’t here to celebrate with me, I know I can continue looking forward to this special day and fill it up with other memories such as, spending it with Micah. I’ll continue to love you and think about our previous anniversaries and know one day, we can see each other in Heaven to relive the times we missed out. I love you and Happy 11th Year Anniversary to you, my love, Lannie.
It’s hard to put into words how much we miss you. Every day without you feels like a chapter we never wanted to write. Micah and I carry your love with us in everything we do — in the quiet moments, in the laughter we still manage to find, and in the stories we tell to keep your spirit alive. You were the heart of our home, the calm in every storm, the laughter in our chaos, and the love that bound us all together. Your strength, kindness, and warmth touched everyone who knew you — and it continues to shine through in Micah. He has your light. Your smile. Your gentle courage. There’s not a day we don’t ache for your presence, but we find comfort in knowing that love never truly leaves us. You’re still here — in the way Micah says something just like you would, in the songs you used to sing, and in every sunset that feels a little too beautiful not to be a sign from you. We love you forever. We miss you always. Until we see you again.